Your emotions are relative to your desire. -Abraham Hicks
I thought to go non-conventional with this article by first posting a quote to start you off. I thought this quote was very relate-able and it comes from a video I have at the bottom of this post. Abraham Hicks is one of those sentient beings that is helping us as human beings get right with our vibrational frequency. As she says in the video, we are terrible at managing them.
And although I agree, I also know that conditioning from “past process” has something to do with it. Being mindful about this and seeing this process pop up often gives us the wiggle room to change that response. It is like the story of Indra’s net which talks about changing a process within the net, changes and alters the way in which things operate (even if only a little). so think of the human beings vibrational frequency as being the net and the change in response as being the change to the net that brings about transformation. This is part of what I learned and enjoyed in the video of Abraham Hicks below,
- Avoiding the problem is not practical
- You are responsible on what you see in your reality
- How to higher your vibrational frequncy
Avoiding the problem is not practical
Abraham Hicks touches on this a little bit, by showing that by pushing away is one answer to a problem. However, it is not problem solving oriented. It doesn’t address our vibrational frequency in terms of bringing it to a higher place. Solution oriented is seeing what reality is showing us in that moment and thinking what can be done to alter the reality. You have the choice of reacting in an old way or you have the choice of responding to something differently. Often times this comes with finding out which belief is causing you to act in a way you don’t exactly desire and letting that go (and i understand this may take more or less effort depending on the individual or temperament.)
Why do you think we see the same kind of thing happen over and over again? Maybe perhaps we see that kind of reality because we are answering that problem in the same way we had before without actually working out the solution or remedy emotionally.
Most of the time the answer comes with letting go and acceptance.
You are responsible on what you see in your reality
So if we’re giving off a certain vibrational frequency through our action, emotion, willingness to accept or reject something because of how this perspective of reality is played out. So we are very much responsible for how it is played out. From our cars not starting, to going through a break-up.
It isn’t so much about the actual event going on but how we manage it emotionally and through our perspective. For instance, if you always victimize yourself then you are always going to see yourself as the victim in various things in your life. But if you are confident in who you are and know a car does break down, it is meant to do so. Nothing is meant to last (teaching on impermanence) then you will see that it just happens.
Abraham Hicks does a good job of explaining that the reality that we experience correlates or depends on the thoughts or agreements we make with ourselves.
Highering your vibrational frequency
If your life has caused you to expand to that [higher vibrational frequency version of yourself]. Then you not going along with that expanded version then that causes negative emotion. -Abraham Hicks
And I won’t go too much into this but basically this points to our holding back because of specific ways in which we feel reality should be for us. Note how I say what we think reality should be. This is not solution oriented because it makes no head way in to solution rather it sees how we want things to be and how things seem in the moment.
Just changing the perspective give enough momentum to start to change the way Indra’s net is formed and reflects off of itself. And when that change starts to form, your vibrational frequency most likely will begin to heighten (given you are choosing the solution oriented response ;))
If you like the video below and are looking for some good meditations by Abraham Hicks I would suggest what she refers to as getting into the vortex.