Personality Falsity

There are many people in life who claim to have a grasp on what they think they would know as being true from false when it comes to the identity. Most of the time it is those people who claim to “hate the fake” face the same dilemma of fakeness or falsity inside themselves that they see in other human beings. This is not such that it’s bad, there is only one difference in the person who is fake and from the person who thinks everyone else is fake. That is… that the person who thinks everyone is false is they themselves false, as the personality has used distinctions to justify their actions as being right.

Over the past couple of weeks, I’ve seen a lot of people claim to “hate fake people.” It intrigues me to see this because how can you hate fake people when you are that in of itself? Most people carry an ego or personality that they themselves are fake but are unaware of the fact they they are fake. They are not the person who even they themselves think they are. They seem to have a good idea of who they are, “I’m a unique individual, I can do this, this, and this.” but that doesn’t define who you are, those are only qualities in which exist within the personality, things that have accumulated over time from other sources. You are not those things, because they either will weaken and be dropped in time, or will cease to exist based on new experiencing.

Since experiencing is always happening, the individual (this is different from the personality) is dynamically changing at all times. Never was it the same as it was even one second ago. Never are you more who you are then you are right now at this very moment. Everything else that is claimed comes from the past. Although those things can be done from the world point of view you are not that, it is only a tool in which can portray the beauty of what you actually are. So to say that you hate the false would be incorrect because it is not that you hate the false, its only that you don’t understand or know the truth that is you.

So here is a thought to be meditated on… if you see falsity in a human being, what is it that you do not like, and if you claim to know who you are, and you yourself is not false, then what are you, and where do you come from? What can you pinpoint is being absolutely yourself? Where in existence are you. You cannot possibly be anything you think that you are, because anything conceptual is not truly you, it only describes a fraction of what you encompass. So even you have a false notion of yourself, thinking that you know who you are. So even the you, that you think you are is false, so drop the belief that you need to condemn the false, they are as unaware of what they do as you are. They are trapped in a dream that even you are caught in. Once you know who you are, everything else will fall into place, until then, keep a watchful eye on the “me” that saying, “I hate this” or “I like this”. All meaningless assertions made from a false ego.

Who you are, makes no condemnation because there is nothing to be condemned, everything is as perfect as it should be in that exact moment. Even this misses the mark in describing who you are.


Nick Myers, a 28 year old serial blogger. Also minimalist, zen participant, philosopher, author of Emotional Alchemist, and tea disciple. I am one who sees a potential lesson in every experience in life. Life is who we are and life is our ultimate guru. I seek to bring us together through our own shared experiences. And hope to not only learn deeply who I am but to learn deeply who others are by dropping my ideas from moment to moment about you.

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